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I love you, and you love me back, loved me back maybe, or am I that blonde I just assumed that FACT,
Your words if I assumed it's only that they came from your heart,
Like mine did, or from somewhere deep within your being..
Then why are we not happy together, or atleast still together,
What happenned to us, who changed the weather,
I know we hadn't said our vows yet but should it really affect us, I'm talking about the bad whether, whether it's dark or night, as long as we are together, forever..
When I'm down you pull me up, or support me be a lever, when you're down, I'll carry you, with my hands, on my back,
If we happen to be all down, we'll fight together, on the ground I will build a shelter,
for us, I can, we can never be defeated, not just because you bring me lack,
Because we were made like that, on our own we are strong, together united we're stronger.

Stonger than steel, stronger than the hippos skin which cannot be cut through even with the strongest steel

Now lOOk what you made me wRITE

I've already done this before,
Enough experience, don't need any more,
If ever you are to leave just tell it to my face,
I never want to plan for this, maybe I should? ..I dont want to fall on my lace!

Break my face, I would hate, but I'd rather that than my heart,
..so if you ever want to leave just tell it to my face, don't just run from our hut,
..mansion, tree house, whatever you call it, anything you want,

I will make it easier, not too uncomfortable, I won't gaze,
I will walk away, with the broken pieces of my heart, stay away from your place..
Not coz I will be over you but because I respect everyone, so sad that now you will be everyone :(

..so if you keep quiet, and tourture me I will assume you're seeking revenge,
Or you're sick, you're laying somewhere in bed,
And I don't know how not to be a good friend,
I will worry, tourture me, if that's what you wanted you have in the worst way been avenged.

..but don't worry, I won't fight back, I never do, that's just me,
Maybe sing Neyo & Rihana's 'hate that I love you', that's the worst I could do!?/;
Even if I didn't love.. off cause, how could that even be true?/;
..now I'm done, not with you, just doing the worst I could do.
..expressing myself.
Seems not yet "I miss you" 'babe'..
:"( end.

Added advantage, or just a pretend ice capped mountain?

Beauty is usually what attracts you to someone or something.. but everyone strives to look their best, so, you could fall for something else.. a mask, perhaps':( That is, what they present themselves as.

Like thieves pass themselves as trustworthy individuals and manage to get people to give them everything they want [steal from them':!] :(

So, beauty of course attracts but you have to be careful not to fall for just a mask. How would you not, you ask? Consistency, look inside the heart.. if the same beauty is from within then that's one test passed.

If it's only a mask then it should fall of at a point. You have to be careful though so you won't be entwined.. so you won't find out that it was just a mask when you have already given your whole heart, dived in too deep to swim back up.

So my theory is, beauty [external, the mask] should be just an added advantage. Atleast to me I try to make it be. It's not easy though..

I'm not however saying you can't trust someone whose beautiful, what I'm saying is you can't just trust someone, not just because they're beautiful. Yes, even when they are really beautiful [In this case both inside and, or out]. You have to let them earn your trust just like everyone else, find out if their beauty is from inside their heart.

If it is their heart that is beautiful then there is potential for an amazing thing. External beauty is a plus, It should always be just that, a plus and not anything more! ..otherwise you will be in real big trouble, when you have fallen in love with a mask, an image nothing like the object that was what you desired, the real person could be the actual opposite of what you may have required:"( 

Crush or Love?

If the first time you see her you want to be with her, you're so sure she’s the one, then she probably isn’t. I said probably so there’s still a percentage likelihood she might still be?!.

There's a relatively big difference between a crush and love, I thank God I didn’t have to learn that the hard way! A crush can lead to love, it’s not the other way round ..that’s just my opinion.

The two aren’t similar although sometimes we interchange them like they were. The first line of this page is my definition of what a crush is, and in comparison love is: if you still want to be with her, you still think she’s the one after you’ve gotten to know her.

I’m definitely not against crushes, I may be having a hard time convincing myself that though, as much as I’d like to believe it.. and to to get rid of my doubts I just have to compare the two':/

..no comparison, not at all!

Crushes can occur within the blink of an eye, and yeah, this might be termed as good in comparison to love, which is usually very complicated [too complicated, to even find a standard definition?/;:'"!], but all the same as first as they [the crushes] appear they disappear. Which to some is again an advantage, one night stands.. wake up, continue with life like nothing ever happened.

These immoral behaviors have contributed to the current messes we have in our societies..

So how can you protect yourself from the potential messes caused by crushes, how do you shield yourself from the crazy complications of love? Follow 'Crushes and, or Love' for more facts and personalized opinions on this topic.